GREG SAYS MOVING WITH KIDS DOES NOT HAVE TO BE A STRUGGLE
Summer is the busiest home moving time of the year, as families try to get settled before the start of the new school year. But moving into a new home elicits many emotions, particularly regarding the children. Carefully preparing children for the move will ease the transition and make the process smoother for the entire family.
Greg offers the following advice on helping kids cope with the big move.
Communicate. Maintain an open dialogue with the children about the decision to move. Engage them at the beginning of the process to give them time to get used to the idea. Explain why you must move and answer questions truthfully.
Listen. Listening to your kids' concerns is equally important. Pay close attention to their statements so you can alleviate any fears. Avoid being dismissive of any social concerns; acknowledge them and remind the kids about the new opportunities ahead.
Explore. After selecting a new home, a real estate sales associate can help you discover the new neighborhood and point out the playgrounds, community centers, and recreation areas that will help make the environment seem more familiar. Coldwell Banker customers can use their local Coldwell Banker Concierge® Service Program for assistance in finding activities for children.
Comfort. Pack up the kids' rooms last to minimize the feeling of any disruption. The longer they feel secure in their own rooms, the easier the transition will be. Then, set up their bedrooms first so they feel like they're back in familiar surroundings
Return to normal routines as quickly as possible, so set up the kitchen second. Serve meals at the same times as before, so there is not too much change all at once for the kids.
Surprise. Arrange for special treats to be waiting for everyone at the new house. New games or new cuddly friends will keep the kids busy during unpacking and make the first memory of the new house a pleasant one!